Neediness Is Not An Attracting Force
(This is an excerpt from a University Of Metaphysical Sciences course at www.umsonline.org,
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What Do You Have To Give?
Neediness is a very repelling force. Neediness is as repelling as exuding loneliness. No one wants to fill another person’s void. It is important that you become filled with love yourself and have something to give. What is it that you have to give to another person? What do you have to share with others? These are the things that you must develop within yourself. You must have something to give if you want to be attractive. You must fill the void within yourself before you have something to share with others. When you meet someone, rather than thinking about what he or she will give you, think about what you have to give to him or her. Be an outflowing of love, rather than a sucking of love. Don’t be an energy vampire. You must be free of the desperate need for another person’s love. In order to be free of that, you must have a still mind and become the source of love. This requires a whole different way of being than you may have been experiencing. This is the first task before you can attract your mate. You must become whole yourself before you have anything to offer anyone else. This does not mean that you must become perfect. It only means that you must become whole, realizing who you really are, realizing your true identity as eternal self in a human experience.