Stop the projection into reality that you are alone and must stay alone. See yourself being loved by another. Visualize having a partner. As you go about your daily affairs, imagine how you would include another person in your activities. How would a partner fit in? Make the mental adjustments that you need to make in order to prepare the way for your mate to appear in your reality. You might prepare the way you would for a guest, thinking of how your guest will fit into your reality during his or her visit. In your meditations, see yourself with a partner, open to receive love, and know that your mate is coming, for you are preparing for him or her to enter your life. See yourself enjoying activities with your mate, not with yearning or longing, wistful for your mate, but joy, as if you already have it. Otherwise you only project more longing and manifest the “absence of your mate.”

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