Exercise 1
(This is an excerpt from a University Of Metaphysical Sciences course at www.umsonline.org,
please feel free to visit the school website)
Erickson, Post, & Page The Hope Scale (1975)
RATING THE IMPORTANCE OF VARIOUS GOALS TO ME
Write a list of goals. After each goal, rate from 1-7 according to how important that goal is to you at this point in your life:
- “I don't care if this happens or not.”
- “I do care about this, but only very little”
- “This is not very important to me.”
- “This is moderately important to me”
- “This is very important to me.”
- “There are only a few things more important to me.”
- “This is one of the very most important goals in my life.”
Here are a few goals that you might have, but add your own:
- Have enough money for basic needs.
- Be seen as attractive in my looks, dress, and grooming.
- Have a good relationship with my father.
- Have good emotional health.
- See my children turn out well.
- Have good bodily health.
- Have a satisfactory leisure life.
- Have a satisfactory sex life.
- Have a good relationship with my children.
- Get enough education.
- Have a nice car.
- Have enough good friends.
- Have enough money to do the things I want.
- Have others feel that I am a worthwhile person to have around.
- Have a good relationship with my mother.
- Have a nice house or apartment.
- At the end of my life, be able to say it was good that I lived.
- Get married and have a good relationship with my spouse.
- Obtain a good job and keep my job.
- Have a good relationship with my other close relatives.




