(This is an excerpt from a University Of Metaphysical Sciences course at www.umsonline.org, please feel free to visit the school website)
Do not place time constraints on your manifesting. Simply go about your life and know the outcome. That is the secret to patience. Trust allows you to turn thoughts away from focusing on the lack of having what you want. Impatience devalues our connection to the divine Holy Spirit. Wayne Dyer writes in Manifest Your Destiny (1997), “Impatience implies that our ego is the boss of desire… Infinite patience produces almost immediate results in your life… You become free when you relax your insistence to have it now, and you increase your awareness that you actually do have it now, already, even though it may not have shown up as you would like it in your immediate surroundings.”
Steps For Detaching From The Outcome:
- Understand the essence of what you desire.
- Banish the doubts and enter into the realm of certainty.
- Leave your expectations and go about your business.
- Maintain privacy about your desires.
- Be aware of the cues when your desires are manifesting.
- Act immediately on the cues that arrive acknowledging them.
- View any and all obstacles as lessons and not indications of failure.
- Release all judgment from your manifestation practice.
- Learn to relax in peace and knowing.
- Use affirmations to keep the energy flowing and to detach from the outcome.
In order to get the outcome you want in life, you need to take a mental evaluation of all things that impact you. Are they positive? Do you structure your way of life around productivity quantity rather than productivity quality? Do you measure happiness in nickels and dimes? By learning about and understanding these things, you can make a positive assessment of how to take charge and lead a healthy, happy life. The relationship that you have with yourself is important as well. Predicting how our choices will affect us in the future is impossible, but we can help ourselves to make the right choices by using certain types of therapy. Meditation is a popular choice, easily altered to fit the individual. Time management may be a factor for some, a reason not to participate in such therapies. What you really need to ask yourself is this: Is your health outcome important to you? What about education outcome? These are all things are influenced by the choices that you make.