This exercise can be used for any purpose

What are the qualities I admire in this person?

What are the qualities most people admire in this person?

What things could this person teach me about?

What words does this person need to hear to have a happier life?

What would be a good challenge for this person to work on?

What problem or challenge has this person recently overcome?

What good change will happen for this person in the coming year?

Which people are or will be difficult in this person's life?

What is a common mistaken assumption made about this person?

If this person were an animal, which animal would he or she be and why?

If this person was a flower or wildflower what would he or she be and why?

Feel free to make up more questions along this vein…